Posts Tagged ‘G-Spot’

Sexually Self-Confident You?

January 30, 2009

I’ve often been asked, “Is sexual self-confidence important?

In a word… YES!  For many women, having sexual self-confidence changes their entire outlook, not only on themselves and their relationships but in their businesses, careers and their whole life.  Let’s explore how you feel right now.  Take a minute to rate your confidence in the bedroom, with 1 being so little confidence that you avoid sex at all costs and 10 being that you feel as hot and sexy as Cher looks.

Surprised by your rating?  Even if it’s high, do you want to increase that number?  Start by first acknowledging that you want to improve this area of your life!  Simply putting yourself on notice can make a difference in how you look at your sensual side.  Be aware of the things you do that are sensual and give you a boost of sexual self-confidence.  Make a commitment to yourself to increase that number.  Wouldn’t it be amazing to have higher sexual self-confidence by Valentine’s Day?  I invite you to follow up that commitment by reading the free chapter excerpt from my new book, the G-Spot PlayGuide.

After you’ve read it, I invite you to try the Sexy Mission and the Celebration in it.  If you choose not to, that’s okay.  While you may not be ready to take the first steps just yet, I ask you: If you do nothing now and nothing different in the future about your sexual skills or confidence, where will your sex-life be in 3 months, in 6 months, and even in a year.  Is that what you want for yourself?  Don’t you deserve more?

Passionately,

Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach

Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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G-Spot with Partner and G-Spot Fluids

December 11, 2008

A client recently asked me about how to use her g-spot vibrator.  She has yet to find her g-spot with it and suspects that, maybe she just needs to relax a bit more since she doesn’t have any problem finding it with her hubby during intercourse.

She also inquired where the juices from a g-spot orgasm come from and, her juices from a g-spot orgasm sometimes  smell like urine.

When first experimenting with your g-spot, try doing it alone.  This will give you plenty of time to get used to the feeling and give you quality time to “train” your body to experience a g-spot orgasm. Keep in mind, however that not all women will experience an orgasm from g-spot stimulation. Sometimes it takes a combination of several factors for you to “let go” and have this type of orgasm.

Experiment with different positions.  Try using your vibrator when you’re on your tummy, or sit up on your knees and bend forward, then approach yourself from behind.  If you are experiencing an orgasm when having intercourse, try that position as well.

Regarding female ejaculation, the liquid comes out of the urethral opening (where we urinate out of), not the vagina. You should also note that you can’t urinate and orgasm at the same time. There is a bladder sphincter that shuts down the bladder when you orgasm. If you have lax urinary muscles, you may have a bit of urine enter into the ejaculate stream that can cause a slight urine smell, but typically the fluid is not urine, nor is it vaginal fluid. It usually has a musky scent and is much thinner than vaginal fluid. The g-spot is actually an area of the urethral sponge (which surrounds the urethral tube) that swells upon sexual arousal. There are people (myself included) who believe that the g-spot is actually just an extension of the complex clitoral system.

I suggest you relax, have fun and try not to put too much pressure on yourself about what type of orgasm to have. Any orgasm is a good one in my book! Also, many satisfactory sexual experiences can be had with no orgasm at all. And, embrace, or at least don’t worry about, the fluids that come out of you – it’s all part of the experience.

Passionately,

Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach

Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
Pick up your Free Report on Top 10 Ways to be a Sexier, more Confidant Woman www.lionessforlovers.com/pages/sign-up-for-sexy-ezine.htm