Taboo Sex Show Fun

We had tons of fun at the Taboo Sex Show in Vancouver, BC Canada from Jan 15-18.  The seminars were standing room only, the people were curious and excited and there was so much to see and do.  You may have seen me on Breakfast Television on City TV Thursday morning promoting the show but if you missed it, I’ll be back as a guest on March 11, 2009.

The first 2 couples I spoke with had been married 46 and 40 years respectively!  How cool that they were at the Taboo Show looking for new things to keep the sexy alive in their obviously very loving relationships.  One man confided that his wife was able to orgasm 6 times in succession – he was tickled.  Another man shared how he had learned to rub his wife’s back in a way that brought her to orgasm.  One man shared, and I believe him, that his very first lover spoiled him by being able to orgasm 52 times in one session!  No other woman has matched up in his eyes.

Yet many women lined up to ask about and share their concerns about lack of orgasm or dissatisfaction with their sex-life.  Each situation is different yet it always boils down to improving communication whether with your partner or yourself!  That’s why I wrote my G-Spot PlayGuide – to help women discover who they are as sensual creatures and find out what they want and two chapters are devoted to helping you share that information with your lover.

I’m also developing a new online program available this spring so you can improve your orgasmic ability – stay tuned!

Here are some pictures and a video from the show:

This is me and "Rev" (an old and very dear friend) the artist who did the sex positions drawings in the book and a G-Spot wizard!

A discreet moment with me and my honey

Arabesque is Bud and Deb's booth for non-piercing body jewlery

Burlesque - one of the fun booths

Dancers on the main stage

Ryann Rain (owner of Stiletto Storm) and one of her dancers Samantha Mack

I presented a seminar on Wildly Passionate Sex for a Wildly Successful life and received a lot of positive comments such as:

“I like that it is about being sexually positive”

“Thinking about pleasure as a good thing rather than dirty or wrong – well done!”

“Very empowering and enthusiastic”

“Loved Kim’s direct, approachable manner”

“Great Fun!”

“She is a passionate speaker who makes things clear about a subject more important than people credit”

At our booth we had the PlayGuide of course and received many comments on our drawslips.  Lots of “Wow!” and “Awesome!”

Oral Sexy Shake Recipe

I receive a lot of requests for this sexy oral lovemaking shake recipe. If you sign up for my newsletter or special report it will come to your inbox in an email.

This shake was developed to be taken by a man before you perform oral sex on him. This shake will “sweeten up your man” so his ejaculate tastes yummier for you! I can’t take the credit for its creation, but even reducing the intake of spicy foods, meats, and alcohol, and encouraging him to snack on celery and pineapple will do wonders – enjoy! I’m sure your man will!

Sexy Shake Recipe
Blend the following with a scoop of natural vanilla ice cream
2 tsp honey
1 cup milk
1/4 tsp ground cinnamon
1/4 tsp ground ginger
1/4 tsp ground nutmeg
1/4 tsp ground cloves
1 raw egg

If your man drinks this 1 hour before lovemaking, his ejaculate will taste sweeter! Compliments of Harley Swiftdeer; Native American Shaman.

I say you get bonus points if:
- you make him this sexy shake
- feed it to him
- and spend the next hour massaging each other!

My recipe for starting off the sexy new you with a bang! Enjoy!

Passionately,

Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach

Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
Pick up your Free Report on Top 10 Ways to be a Sexier, more Confidant Woman www.lionessforlovers.com/pages/sign-up-for-sexy-ezine.htm

Divorce can be made easy

Have you or someone you know been touched by divorce? Are you having a difficult time navigating through the emotional turmoil? Do you wish you had somewhere to turn for support? Are you tired of having your divorce run your life?

 

If you answered yes to any or all of these questions, then you will want to participate in the teleseminar that my colleague and friend Lisa Fredette of Passionate About Life Coaching is facilitating beginning October 8, 2008. I have worked with Lisa and know firsthand that she is committed and passionate about supporting women in their divorce recovery. As a divorced single mom, Lisa knows the challenges that you face when going through divorce and she will share with you the tried and true techniques for rebuilding after divorce. You can be assured that her program will be rich with content to help you get started in your divorce recovery.

 

Start developing the foundation on which to build your future one block at a time and turn your divorce into a celebration of life.  If you are facing divorce or know someone who is I encourage you to sign up for the

12 Week Rebuilding after Divorce Teleseminar beginning on  October 8, 2008 or share this information with your friends so they too can begin to heal  http://lisafredette.com/takecontrol/seminar.html?af=853008

and begin reclaiming your personal power through your divorce recovery!

 

This twelve week teleseminar will give you the tools to rebuild your cracked and shifted life foundation by putting all the negative emotions, unanswered questions and doubts in their place. Once you have done this you will have built a strong foundation under you and you can then achieve all that you want in both your personal and professional life. So take the first step in reclaiming your personal power thru your divorce recovery – sign up for the 12 week Rebuilding after Divorce Teleseminar Series today!

 

Lisa has stood in your shoes. She knows what it feels like to be paralyzed by fear. She understands how daunting the future can look as a divorced single mom. She has made the journey from the unknown abyss of divorce to the clearly defined vision of her future. She has successfully turned her divorce into a celebration of life and so can you. Join her for the 12 Week Teleseminar Series and she will share with you how she did it, so you can too.

 

As an added bonus – once you register you will receive bonus gifts valued at over $700.00 – so don’t delay sign up today – class is limited to 20 participants so secure your seat now http://lisafredette.com/takecontrol/seminar.html?af=853008

E-Women Network Conference Report

While in Dallas, when asked what I do I replied: I help women stop faking their orgasms. I quickly became known as the Orgasm Lady. Judging by the reactions I received, there is still an epidemic of women faking it!

My new Vulva Puppet stole the show at dinner with the L.A. ladies (at The Palms-great food!) This is the bunch of us: (left to right)

Linda Hollander (holding the puppet!) fellow cat lover who helps businesses attract corporate sponsors, speaker, author of Bags to Riches – www.wealthybaglady.com
Me- hidden but there
Mimi Donaldson bold, brilliant and beautiful keynote presenter www.mimidonaldson.com shared great speaking tips
Kim Hamer brings peace to parents as they navigate the private school process at www.getintoprivateschool.com AND she was my roomie, cheering section and friend
Judi Froehlich MC of dinner and Event Specialist/Consultant and Dancing Queen Extraordinaire
Ooops – I can’t recall this woman’s name but she creatively helps women leave their homes when in crisis
Margie Johnston keeps hospitality sales flowing at www.rrmanage.com and loves to dance as well
Tricia Greaves helps women with emotional eating at www.betotallyfree.com and is getting married soon – you go girl!

Here is a picture of me with Kerry Brown of www.SuccessBizCoach.com and the reason I attended the conference! She’s the managing director of the Victoria, BC chapter of the E-Women Network.

Meet Jody England and her gals at www.BuzZen.us who have a great thing going and they sure seem to be sexually enlightened ladies! Stay tuned as we have plans to do some fun things together!

If you want to be inspired, informed or made to laugh, check out the free articles at www.divatoolbox.com where you can learn a multitude of things. Look for me there soon as well.

Elissa Naufel (one of my dinner companions on Friday night) of  www.ingenuitypm.com/index.htm is a creative genius. We have some wild and wonderful plans for the future!

We were entertained by the most hilarious guys ever!: Jud Laipply
If you haven’t seen the evolution of dance video, you must go here now! www.theevolutionofdance.com/ Come back after because I got to thinking about Judson and sex. If he makes love the way he performs, then his partner is very, very fortunate. He is clearly an astute observer of people which means he probably listens and pays attention – a great asset for the bedroom! He dances with so much energy, creativity, and flair. He employed variety, a great sense of humour and fab music. What more do you need in a lover?

Michael Gerber (of the E-Myth fame) has been an inspiration to entrepreneurs around the world for many years and yes, his closing keynote was fabulous. What really struck home for me, though, was that he has such an obvious and apparent love for his wife who sat at my table right at the front of the stage. Here is a man who, at 77 years old, openly loves and respects his wife and travels with her at his side. A very sweet man after my own heart.

Yes, I danced my face off, nibbled on glorious fruit dipped in the chocolate fountain and ate a warm gooey, cakey delight and then danced some more! This was our Evening of Chocolate Decadence and here I am with my dear friend Kim Hamer. The band rocked us all night long and my new strappy heels even survived the night-no blisters!

There were many more great women that I haven’t mentioned. It is always powerful to be in the company of positive, inspired females – I highly recommend you attend women’s events whenever you can and soak up the uplifting energy of sisterhood!

Dallas outdoors in July was like being in a blow dryer – hot and windy. I didn’t get to Nordstroms to go shopping but it was a great trip and I’ll be back next year!

Passionately,

Kim Switnicki
Your Orgasm Breakthrough Coach

Don’t Worry – Be Happy!

I met a warm and wonderful woman a few months ago who is a Flamenco dance teacher and Doctor. I knew she’d be someone to listen to and her passion is contagious! Below is a recap of some of her tips for those who wonder how to keep yourself happy in your relationship.

Dr. Susan Biali’s 5 things you can do right now to improve the quality of your relationship.

1) Focus on your needs
This doesn’t mean be selfish. It just means to pay attention to doing what would be best for you. If something isn’t going the way you want it to, don’t let it get you down. Turn your focus to what you should be doing, right now, to take care of yourself and your own life. The key – don’t let anything someone else does phase you, or take away your peace and enjoyment of life.

2) Stay happy, No matter what
Don’t base your happiness on other peoples’ actions. Find things that you enjoy in life and focus on them when times are hard. If you’re in a rut, face the fact that you have the power to change it to make sure that you are happy.

3) Listen to your body
Learn to hear when your body’s signals say “that’s enough!“. If you’re getting headaches or body aches, take a moment to figure out what’s causing it & then immediately do something that will help you feel better and happier.

4) Recognize your weaknesses
All of us have “hot buttons” that cause us to fly off the handle. Learn to recognize them and how to diffuse them. It may be by going into another room or doing something silly when you feel yourself reacting to those buttons. Sometimes a deep breath and a moment to diffuse is all it takes to keep from causing unnecessary stress and pain to yourself and your significant other.

5) Focus on the good
Focus on what you like most about your partner and what would be good for you to also improve upon. If you nag and try to change your
partner, you will run into stubbornness and will repeatedly fail. On the other hand – if you accept them for the way they are and focus on your own happiness, they will inevitably follow suit.

To read her full article visit Susan Biali’s site.

I invite you to re-read the above and apply these tips also to your intimate relationship. How can you use them in your bedroom?

For starters, consider always taking full responsibility for your own pleasure. This doesn’t mean just for your own orgasm, but the whole sexual experience. Don’t leave it up to your partner. Take charge of your sensual joy.

Remember that what you want in bed is important. If your partner doesn’t want to make love, it doesn’t mean you need to shut your own sensuality off. Masturbation, fantasy and cuddling together are all very heathy too!  

If your body is experiencing discomfort, stop doing whatever action is causing it! Whether vaginal, anal, hands or tongue, don’t ever let your body and mind associate pain with sensuality. That will not serve you. You can always change positions, take a break or simply stop the activity and re-assess.

Try not to let yourself get worked up over sexual issues unless in a good way. If you start flinging mean words around about your sex-life, it can be tricky to reverse the damage once it’s been said. Preventative action here is best. Cool off first. Maybe write your thoughts down and approach your partner when you’re calmer. You can always bring in another party such as a counsellor if the issue can’t be resolved.

Finally, focus on the good things about your intimate relationship. That is what we do in coaching. We look at getting more of what you want by looking at what YOU can do to change things. This may mean altering your thinking or your behavior. Trying to make other people change NEVER works. So don’t frustrate yourself. If you want to be more creative in bed, or want to have more sex or you want to become more orgasmic - what will you do to make that happen?