On June 22nd, I enjoyed chatting about great sex with Wayne & Jayne in the Kootenays on KBS radio. I shared sexy tidbits about sexuality and intimacy. Are you orgasmic? Do you have quality sexual experiences? Listen and learn what a difference these can make for you in your daily life!
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Breakfast Television was in for some spice when I showed up! Do you have a “very vanilla” partner? Do you want to spark their interest in new fun and games?
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Dawn and Riaz, hosts of Breakfast Television, get into a fun discussion about sexy games and my book the G-Spot PlayGuide.
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“When the moon is in the seventh house
And Jupiter aligns with Mars
Then Peace will guide the Planets
And Love will steer the Stars
This is the Dawning of the Age of Aquarius…”
I’m sure that many of you recognize these lyrics…but did you know that THIS year these words take on a literal meaning?
That’s right – On February 14th, 2009, the moon will be in the seventh house and Jupiter will be aligned with Mars. What does that mean? Well the resulting energies have to do with transforming relationships and a bunch of other stuff.
So if you’re into astrology try taking about 5 minutes around 7:20am (in any time zone) and focus on planetary healing. If you’re not so into astrology, look at it as another reason to make this Valentine’s Day the most romantic ever!
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach
Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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With the New Year comes the inevitable New Year’s resolution. Some will make resolutions to lose weight, some to stop a bad habit, but what if this year you made a resolution to GAIN something? What if you made the resolution to make this year the year that you become a sexier, more self-confident you! Time after time we all make resolutions that we just can’t stick to for more than a month or two (yes, I’m guilty of it as well), so isn’t it time that you made a resolution that not only you can stick to, but will make you feel FABULOUS at the same time?
Here are a few simple things that you can do to start feeling sexier today:
So ladies, say good-bye to 2008 and ring in 2009 with a resolution to become a sexier new you. You can continue on your exciting path by reading an excerpt from my G-Spot PlayGuide. I feel that 2009 is going to be our sexiest year yet, so go ahead, buy that smoking red lipstick, wear those scintillating stiletto heels, release your inhibitions and unleash that sexy Lioness!
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach
Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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With the holidays upon us chocolate items are everywhere. Many of you know the benefits of chocolate as a “pick-me-up”, but did you also know that it can have a positive impact on your sexuality? That’s right! A woman who enjoys chocolate has been said to be more in tune with herself sensually. Chocolate contains phenyl-ethylamine, which is a chemical that stimulates the release of dopamine into pleasure centers that are associated with orgasms. How cool is that?
While my colleagues search for ways to fit sex into their subject headings, my clientele often finds chocolate more enticing. A lot of women (are you one?) would take a quick two minutes to savour a piece of organic dark chocolate (my favourite) over two minutes of sex or intimacy. Am I right?
Chocolate stimulates all the senses, melting in your mouth at body temperature, the smooth texture and sweet aroma heightens the sensuality of the experience. So I say, instead of choosing chocolate over love-making, add it TO your love-making. Cure your sweet tooth (and your honey’s) by using chocolate, adding a whole new saucy experience to your bedroom.
Here are some quick and easy ways to add saucy intimacy into your holidays. Remember that intimacy and sensual/sexual activity greatly reduces stress, so do what you can to reduce the stress for yourself this holiday season.
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach
Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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I only recently got on board with the whole Blackberry thing – and I swore I wouldn’t, but easy access to my email when I travel made it an attractive option when I lost my cell phone (running to catch a ferry!). So now I use it for phone and for email but I don’t do the texting thing yet. My sweetie also has a Blackberry and he watches it like a hawk. We’ve been in different towns of late, so when I miss him, I fire off a quick email and I know he’ll get it right away. Gotta love technology for keeping the home fires burning!
Here is an article that someone passed along to me and so I’m reprinting it here for those who want to know the secrets to texting for romance.
Enjoy!
Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach
Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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Texting Etiquette
by Carly Milne
Combine the convenience of a mobile-phone call with the privacy of an email, and there you have the latest, greatest way to keep in touch with someone you like: texting. These days, nearly everyone’s exchanging mini-missives with their amour. That said, there’s a right way and a wrong way to get your message through—and while texting has cultivated many a relationship, an equal number of foundered because the texters didn’t adhere to a few simple rules. Follow these helpful tips, however, and they’ll turn you into a texting expert in no time, not to mention aid in cultivating some warm-and-fuzzy feelings between you and your intended.
Do text on noteworthy occasions
Texts are a great way to let the object of your affections know that he or she is on your mind—especially when a response isn’t really required. “One text-worthy occasion is the morning after a great night out,” says Regina Lynn, author of The Sexual Revolution 2.0. “A note saying ‘I had a great time last night’ or ‘Thinking of you’ is less intrusive than a phone call but very sweet.” Other prime texting times would be if your date has mentioned an important upcoming meeting or event. Sending a quick “Good luck at your meeting; you’ll do great!” beforehand or a “Hope your interview went well–looking forward to hearing about it” afterward are the equivalent of little love darts into your date’s heart. Keep ‘em coming!
Don’t text when a phone call would be better
Though it can get addictive, having endless and lengthy text conversations in place of voice-to-voice action is a bad idea. Why? It’s all about making that human connection. “Texting is OK for simple exchanges of information – meet me here, see you there – but I want to hear my girl say hi,” notes Adam Dreyfus, 37. “I was dating a woman who texted me all the time, but it wasn’t the same as being at work, stressed out and behind schedule, then hearing the phone ring and hearing her voice. Just a simple ‘hi’ can make everything right in the universe.” So if it’s been a number of days since you’ve spoken to each other, consider picking up the phone to remind your sweetie what you sound like. Also keep in mind that texting can often be more cumbersome and time-consuming than a phone call, so before you compose your text, ask yourself: Would a phone allow us to hash out our plans more quickly? If so, save yourself (and your date) the trouble and use the phone.
Do flirt with caution
Nothing can break up a mundane work day better than a few texted sweet nothings… but if you’re thinking of steaming things up, proceed with caution. It’s all too easy to risk offending the recipient with a message that’s a little too titillating, too soon. “You shouldn’t start with porn words. Some people who can get really creative in bed still do not want to see certain words on their phones,” warns Lynn. “I would begin with some general flirting – I want to kiss you – and see what they say back.” If the person responds in kind and even escalates (questions like “What else did you like about last night?” are an obvious welcome sign), feel free to up the ante, slightly, with racier confessions. In short, before you dig into full-on dirty talk, you should have paved the way with numerous texts that make it clear this is the direction you’re going and that the recipient is fine hearing them.
Don’t text at odd hours
Just as you wouldn’t call at all hours of the night, nor should you text then, either. “Always be sensitive to what the person is likely to be doing,” says Lynn. “For example, don’t text before 10 a.m. unless you know for sure they get up early and enjoy mornings.. Don’t text after 10 p.m.” Not only could you wake the person up (cell phones still ring when they receive a text), but even if their cell is turned off, they can still see you texted them at 3 a.m.—and that makes you look inconsiderate, needy, or just plain weird.
Don’t say anything you wouldn’t say in person
Hiding behind your phone is a sure fire way to start a new relationship out on the wrong foot—especially if what you’re trying to avoid saying in person is important. “I once dated this guy who chose to text me about having an STD,” recalls Sharlene Smithers, 32. “I wasn’t as bothered by the STD so much as I was bothered that he texted me about it. It felt like a cowardly way out, and it left me wondering what else he was incapable of communicating to me.” It’s best to save texting for fun and flirty notes or where-to-meet-what-time type of plans. Save heavy conversations and first “I love yous” for face-to-face chats.
Don’t text if you’re tipsy
This one’s kind of obvious, but just about everyone does it so it bears repeating: Do not text someone when you’re nearly-falling-off-your-bar-stool drunk. “I was dating this guy who would send me drunken booty call texts when he went out with his boys,” recalls Sarah Street, 30. “I’d get them in rapid succession, starting with, ‘r u coming over?’ And then if I didn’t respond he’d say, ‘r u on yr way?’ When I talked to him the next day, he didn’t even remember sending them. We laughed about it later, but in the beginning of our relationship, I found it way too forward.” So take note: If you’re soused enough that the numbers on your touch pad are swimming, your judgment’s probably impaired enough that you’ll regret whatever you’re about to text. Go home go to sleep. If whatever you wanted to say is that important, you’ll remember it and can text away tomorrow.
Carly Milne has written for Maxim, Stuff, and other publications.
I receive a lot of requests for this sexy oral lovemaking shake recipe. If you sign up for my newsletter or special report it will come to your inbox in an email.
This shake was developed to be taken by a man before you perform oral sex on him. This shake will “sweeten up your man” so his ejaculate tastes yummier for you! I can’t take the credit for its creation, but even reducing the intake of spicy foods, meats, and alcohol, and encouraging him to snack on celery and pineapple will do wonders – enjoy! I’m sure your man will!
Sexy Shake Recipe
Blend the following with a scoop of natural vanilla ice cream
2 tsp honey
1 cup milk
1/4 tsp ground cinnamon
1/4 tsp ground ginger
1/4 tsp ground nutmeg
1/4 tsp ground cloves
1 raw eggIf your man drinks this 1 hour before lovemaking, his ejaculate will taste sweeter! Compliments of Harley Swiftdeer; Native American Shaman.
I say you get bonus points if:
- you make him this sexy shake
- feed it to him
- and spend the next hour massaging each other!
My recipe for starting off the sexy new you with a bang! Enjoy!
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach
Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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QUESTION
My lover really likes to watch me masturbate. Is this normal and is there a hidden message? Thanks.
ANSWER
Hello Jane (names protected),
Thanks so much for sending this question in to me! I think watching each other masturbate is a fabulous, sexy and healthy way for lovers to inter-act. Not only does your lover see EXACTLY how you like to be pleasured, but they get to watch you in the throes of passion without being distracted by their own actions (of trying to stimulate you themselves).
I personally have always been turned on by watching my lovers. It’s the voyeur in me. As long as it isn’t inappropriate (such as watching someone who doesn’t want to be watched), it’s all good! The only problem I can see is if one of you is not comfortable with this. My definition of healthy sexuality is one that is 100% consensual and brings pleasure to all parties. If you both enjoy it, I don’t see a reason to read anything hidden at all :-) As for normal, there is a HUGE range for “normal” sexuality and I’m not sure what normal really is. I can tell you it is VERY common and I think a great thing to do.
FOLLOW-UP
Kim – thanks so much for your response. I guess maybe I’m the one with the backward thinking – that my lover should be the one pleasuring me as opposed to myself. I would not have thought to watch my lover masturbate – it doesn’t seem like it would excite me – however – getting insight into what he likes would be. (Which I think is your point.) I will ask and see what his reaction is. Thanks again! Jane
Passionately,
Kim Switnicki, ACC, ECPC
Sex Educator, Speaker, Intimacy Coach
Author of “G-Spot PlayGuide: 7 Simple Steps to G-Spot Heaven!”
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